Are you prepared for the most romantic holiday of the year?
In order to make it through Valentines day in one piece, you need to answer the basic questions: “Where do I go?”,”What do I do?”
In this article we have solved your questions for you and mapped out what you can do to make it a Valentines day both of you will remember.
From the ideal Valentine’s Day gifts to the ideal Valentine’s Day desserts, this guide will cover everything you need to know to have a wonderful time with the girl who said yes to your question, “Will you be my Valentine?”
Depending on how you plan it out, Valentines day can be a day filled with excitement and joy, or a total failure. This article will give you a blueprint to how to master the art of a great Valentines day.
CHOOSING A MEMORABLE GIFT
Start by selecting the right gift. The right gift symbolizes that you pay attention to the person you care about. The wrong gift symbolizes laziness and not much thought.
Wear you are in you relationship is also important. If this is a new relationship, stay with the classics: chocolate and flowers. If this relationship is a few years old, look to more important though out gifts: a card with a thought out quote with picture is a nice thought out touch.
Pick out a gift that shows depth. Women know when a man chooses a gift that was not thought out. Being lazy is never a good thing, especially when it comes to Valentines day.
Try to match the gift you are going to give to that persons personality. Take a moment to think of the person who is going to receive you gift. What type of person are they? Are they wild and crazy? The type that would enjoy a gag gift, like fuzzy hand cuffs. Or are they simple and conservative. The type that would enjoy a well thought out dinner and a movie. Matching the gift to the persons personality is always a good bet. Think deeply and choose your gift wisely, usually has a great outcome.
Note: For those readers who are in a more serious relationship, the above gifts are fine as well, but only as a bonus, not the main gift. When it a long term situation, be sure to put some real thought and effort into getting something personal that you know your woman would appreciate.
THE DATE
Choosing the right gift was just the beginning. Now its time to plan your date. Take a moment to realize that women take longer to arouse than men. Start the date hours in advance by texting her enticing text messages, telling her that you are looking forward to seeing her tonight.
This is, after all, Valentine’s Day, and you are going to make it special. Anyone can give a bunch of flowers, and a box of candy, but only someone with imagination can do it with finesse.
For flowers, an alternative to roses is daisies. Tie them with bright colored spring ribbons and attach tickets for the date. The tickets can vary from inexpensive to lavish depending on your relationship and financial situation. It could be a getaway beach weekend, a concert, play, or just a movie.
THE PERFECT DINNER
After the date, you are going to want to have some alone time. Since it is Valentine’s Day you have the perfect root to get her back to your place. Let her know you have planned for her a really amazing Valentine’s dinner that you know she is really going to love. Once she is back at your place you can really kick up the romantic aspect of Valentine’s Day to a whole new level.
Cooking for a women is one of the most powerful things that a man can do to show that he cares. Choose your ingredients carefully and you will be rewarded beyond your wildest dreams.
Gift, done. Date, in the bag. Meal that you cooked, easy. Now it’s time to take it to the next level by serving her dessert. Nothing makes a woman go crazy like a man who knows how to feed a woman sweets.
One dessert that never grows old, is S’mores. This easy to create dessert tastes great and brings out the child in all of us.
Chocolate has certain chemical compounds that stimulate a woman sexually. Add chocolate to any dessert to bring flavor and creativity to the end of a well cooked meal. Add a bowl of fruit with melted chocolate to mix fun with flavor.
TURN UP THE ROMANCE
After the meal, the time comes for your final surprises. Some of this stuff can be pretty intense – so unless you have been seeing each other a while, use these moves sparingly and wisely. You are about to blow her mind and make this a night she will never forget.
Give her a body massage: sensual, loving, and warm, with special oils (get those flowers and bring them to the massage table). Also provide a warm sheet so she can cover any areas of her body that get cold.
The key is to look and plan each individual event with grace. Each event, from the date, all the way to turning on the romance, will lead to a Valentines Day that both of you will remember for a long time.
Neil Strauss and his Stylelife Academy, possess the skills to make you a master pick up artist by teaching you how to get the girl of your dreams by mastering how to put on the perfect Valentines Day!!!
