As a energy healer and Akashic record reader I am often asked the question, what is stopping me from finding love? It is such an important question that we all have to address at some point in our lives. Love is such an important need and want for a human being. It is the only energy, the only vibration that reconnects us with who we are. It is the highest form of energy there is. Every other substitution falls short.

When I hear this question I know the person is coming from a belief system, thought pattern that has been programed into them. There is a block that makes them think that for some reason they are not capable of finding the kind of love they really deserve. That there is something wrong inside of them.

When you’re thinking thoughts of wanting a mate, are you fully in alignment with what you desire? What I mean by that is, are you thinking and feeling the same? Or are you thinking, yes I want that person but feeling no I can’t have it, I don’t deserve it? The universe uses your emotions as the guideline for what you’re really asking for. So if you’re thinking yes but feeling no, then that’s what it hears.

A lot of this is subconscious. It’s programming that was given to you by your environment and experiences. Your brain is in a hypnotic state the early years of your life. If you heard, felt, saw relationships in a certain way, your brain would simply accept that as your truth. By the way, 90+ percent of our behaviors, thoughts and feelings are subconscious! So if you’re using 10% of your mind to ask for your love and 90% is feeling the opposite, guess who wins?

Now let’s be honest, most of us have been trained to believe that what we need is outside of ourselves. We logically know that doesn’t make sense, but emotionally we can’t seem to stop the obsession. That’s because of our programming. I would suggest that you work with that belief or block that is keeping you stuck. Find out what the root cause of that discomfort is. Where that belief comes from, who’s is it and why you’ve adopted it. Then do whatever it takes to permanently remove it from your subconscious mind. Once your vibration changes, you will find love.

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Have you joined the spiritual club yet? The club that is about deep connection to self? If you haven’t, then I hope this article will change encourage you to.

Something is happening on the planet we live on. The weather is changing drastically, there is a spiritual revolution going on some call ascension. It’s seems as if we’re going to the next level of evolution. No matter if we signed up for it or not.

We are connecting to each other so easily now because of technology. I am in constant awe of the fact that I do Akashic readings to people from each continent over the phone! It also makes me realize how small this rock really is and how connected we all are. What happens to another can happen to me. I don’t have the funds to leave the rock we’re living on and neither is there an opportunity.

If 3-4% of the world’s population participated, the future would change on the planet. The more happier, connected, aware, successful you become the more chances there are for all of us. By you being connected to your most powerful self a critical mass of change will be hit. Your happiness affects us all. Your ability to create and share abundance makes a difference.

You don’t even have to know the lingo of the spiritual club. Reiki, yoga, akashic record reading, crystal therapy, laying of the hands, tarot readings, past life regression, shamanism and the list goes on and on. All very amazing ways to connect and participate. You just have to connect with yourself in the way you know how. Meditate, read, go on long walks, swim in the ocean, feed stray animals, whatever way reconnects you to all of us.

Membership is free and you can cancel at anytime!

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With all the recent and widespread media coverage of the Swine Flu and possibility of it’s swift spread through the population of this world, it seems to me to be a good idea to discuss another type of virus – one that a great many people could stand to “catch” and would be better off for it.

The interesting thing about viruses is how fast they can overtake a population. Moreover, each individual that is infected with a specific virus strain tends to exhibit similar symptoms to others that have been infected with the same virus. It is these two unique flu characteristics that I want to focus on with regard to infecting the world’s population this new “virus”.

The “Paying it Forward” Bug

Many people recognize the phrase “pay it forward” and many would connect this phrase to the movie of the same name in which “Paying it Forward” meant that, in exchange for a good deed that you’ve received, you should perform three good deeds of your own.

Of course, this “pay it forward” idea is nowhere near new (nor was it at the time that the book was authored). It actually pre-dates even the well respected Ben Franklin who described “paying it forward” with the following words:

“I do not pretend to give such a Sum; I only lend it to you. When you [...] meet with another honest Man in similar Distress, you must pay me by lending this Sum to him; enjoining him to discharge the Debt by a like operation, when he shall be able, and shall meet with another opportunity. I hope it may thus go thro’ many hands, before it meets with a Knave that will stop its Progress. This is a trick of mine for doing a deal of good with a little money.”

It’s also useful to understand, in my opinion, that “paying it forward” shouldn’t always have to involve the giving of money or assisting with physical labor, although, often, it does. A much simpler approach to the “pay it forward” model is described in great detail on my new site WhyTheCards.com, but below is the premise of the site (and the vision) in brief.

Appreciation and Encouragement Can Make a HUGE Difference

Almost 100 years ago, Andrew Carnegie decided that Charles Schwab was the best man to run the new United States Steel Company. So, he named him as president and offered him a starting salary of $1,000,000 per year or approximately $3,000 per DAY (during a period when a $3,000 ANNUAL salary would have been very good pay).

This gargantuan salary was a direct result of Schwab’s uncanny ability to effectively deal|deal|effectively interact) with individuals, according to Schwab himself. He had this to say:

“I consider my ability to arouse enthusiasm among my people,” said Schwab, “the greatest asset I possess, and the way to develop the best that is in a person is by appreciation and encouragement.”

WhyTheCards.com is all about applying the “pay it forward” ideal to this oft ignored idea of encouragement and appreciation, but in a simple and unique way that spreads like a virus until it, literally, touches hundreds of thousands of people – hopefully (it’s success depends upon individuals such as yourself).

A Matter of Sending a Simple Card

It’s hard to imagine just exactly why a simple piece of cardstock with an image and a note can have such a powerful impact on a friend that’s been going through a difficult situation (or maybe even if they haven’t). Just the simple act of letting them know how much you appreciate them and the talents they possess. Or, a word of congratulations for a great performance.

Deliver a note to invite them to dinner or to tell them you’ll be bringing THEM dinner this Friday. Better yet, encourage them to do something nice for someone else who’s having a rough time. It’s amazing, when you’re going through a rough spot in life, just how much better YOU feel when you’re able to help someone else.

Many people could do with a reminder that they are truly special and have value and that they have gifts that not a single other person has which should be used to help people. It doesn’t matter how old or young they are, how sick they might happen to be, how stressful their life is right now, how many screw-ups they have under their belt, they STILL have alot to offer, but nobody will know that unless they actually offer it. It doesn’t have to require alot of time or money to encourage someone. A very simple card can mean the world and might be just what the doctor ordered.