Your relationship seemed fine: you could chat about anything, you had great moment together, and you never have a fight. Then one day, your sweetheart dropped a bomb: she wants more space. And now your good relationship is over and youre broken up.
What was going on? The unexpected break up leaves you asking your heart and wondering if you did some mistakes. If you want your girlfriend back, the first thing you need to do is let your girlfriend have the space she needs.
Your girlfriend may have a good reason to need some space, but its helpless to waste time over-thinking about the break up. When the situation is right, she will tell you the truth. Many girlfriends find they suddenly need space because of some issues with family or friends, personal insecurities, or even a fear of commitment if the relationship was moving too quickly.
Instead of thinking about your girlfriends reason for needing space, focus on getting her back. Take this steps to ensure success:
Dont beg your girlfriend to come back or crowd her with emotional messages. That will just make her feel like she needs even more space. Have some dignity and play it cool.
You don’t have to completely ignore your girlfriend. Although she needs space but that doesnt mean she wants to feel forgotten or abandoned. Send her a simple text message or call her every once in a while just to see how shes doing. Keep the conversations short and cheerful.
After you give her the space she needs, while showing her that you still want to get her back, she will begin to think about you more. This gives you the opportunity to bring up good memories during your conversations and reminisce a little bit. Dont talk about negative things or demand she tell you the reason of the break up. Keep it cool and comfortable so that she can relax chatting with you.
After some time, if your ex girlfriend is not responding to your approach, and in fact keeps pushing you away more, you need to re-evaluate. Its possible that she just really is not interested in you anymore. On the other hand, perhaps she needs more space and you should back off some more. Ideally, however, she will be expressing more interest in you and calling you more. In this case, you can take things to the next level and start working on rekindling the relationship.
Finally, if you are getting some clear signals of attraction from your ex girlfriend, open up to her. Let her know how you feel, but tell her in a simple, direct way. Dont act desperate or clingy”that will just sabotage all your hard work up to this point. And if you have read the signals back, then this will be the moment when you win your ex girlfriend back. Because you gave her the space she needed, your relationship will probably be stronger than ever before.
